He means he would take you on a date someday. This could be a guy that you started talking to when you both exchanged contact at a social gathering.
Since you both started talking he always talked about how he wants you both to hang out, but he never said when it would happen.
If you asked him when and he replies ‘someday’, then he means that you both would go on a date someday.
The same thing is applicable when you have asked him some important questions and he has not given you a definite reply, if he tells you ‘someday’, then it means he would give you a definite reply someday.
Here are 5 possible meanings when a guy says someday
- He wants to take you on a date someday
- He would give you a definite reply someday
- He would visit your parents someday
- He would get you a gift someday
- Someday you both would get married
He wants to take you on a date someday
If he is interested in you and you both have been talking for a while, he must have told you that he wants to take you on a date without telling you when it would be.
If you are interested in going on a date with him you can as well ask him when you both would be going on the date.
If he replies ‘someday’, then it means that you both would go on a date someday. However, he did not give you an exact date, he only wants you to have it in mind and get yourself prepared mentally.
He may not be sure when he wants to go on the date, he told you someday which means a future date.
When he is sure about the day, he will communicate it to you. Since he is not sure, saying ‘someday’ means playing it safe so that you do not choose a day that would not be favorable for both of you.
He would give you a definite reply someday
Have you asked him questions like ‘When would you travel to your dream country?’ and he never gives you a definite answer? If he says ‘someday’, it means he would give you a definite reply someday and you would not need to ask him all the time.
In the real sense, he told you someday because he is not sure when that day would be but he knows that he would eventually travel to his dream country when the time is right.
When you ask him when he is traveling to his dream country and he is not sure when the date would be, instead of telling you a date he is not sure of, It is safer to tell you ‘someday’.
He would visit your parents someday
Perhaps you both have been talking for a while and he always mentioned how he wants to visit your parents so that he would get familiar with members of your family.
It could also be that you told your parents about him and they have been eager to see him ever since.
When you ask him when he would come to visit your parents and he says ‘someday’, it means he would visit your parents someday. He did not give a definite answer on when he would visit your parents, he just said ‘someday’.
He would get you a gift someday
If you both are close friends and he has promised to buy you a gift without telling you when that would be, you can ask him when you should expect the gift.
If he tells you someday, then it means that he does not want to tell you exactly when he would get the gift or that he only wants it to be a surprise.
There is a possibility that he just wants it to be a surprise and that is why he has not told you the exact date when he would get you the gift. Keep your fingers crossed, he would get you the gift someday, at the right time.
Someday you both would get married
Are you both in an intimate relationship? If he has told you severally that one day he would propose to you and eventually tie the knot, without telling you when that day would be, you can ask him about it.
If he says someday, then it means that someday you both are going to get married and you would tie the knot pe
What To Do When A Guy Says Someday
- Ask him what he means by that
- Ask him when exactly
- Tell him how excited you are and that you cannot wait
- Tell him your parents have been longing to meet him
- Mentally prepare for it
Ask him what he means by that
People have different reasons for doing what they do, if you both are talking and you ask him a question that makes him say ‘someday’, you may need to ask him what he means by that, especially if you are not clear about what he means.
When he explains that to you, you would be able to understand better why he said that. In situations like this, you should not assume.
Making assumptions would only make things worse. Ask him what he meant by that so you would know the best way to reply to him.
Ask him when exactly
When he says ‘someday’, he is not giving a definite date. This is one reason why you need to ask him when exactly, that way, he would be able to tell you when instead of giving a vague answer like ‘someday’.
In a situation where you need a straightforward answer from him, you need him to go direct and not tell you ‘someday’.
That is not being direct and it also does not tell when exactly.
Tell him how excited you are and that you cannot wait
Do this only if he once promised you something. There is this joy you get when someone promises you something and the person is yet to fulfill it.
You tend to feel so anxious in anticipation of what the person promised you. If he said he was going to do something nice for you someday and he is yet to do it, you are likely to get anxious about it.
In a situation like this tell him how excited you are and that you cannot wait. Once he knows that you are this excited he could change his mind to reveal what he wants to get you.
It is usually good when you let him know how you have been anticipating what he wants to get you.
It is a normal thing to get excited when someone promises you something and the person is yet to do it.
You can only tell him that you are so excited and that you cannot wait to see what he wants to get for you. Even a child would be as excited as you are, if not more excited and anxious.
Tell him your parents have been longing to meet him
Do this only if you have told your parents about him and ever since they have been eager to meet him. If he told you that he would visit your parents someday, without giving you an exact date, you need to let him know that your parents have been longing to see him.
Now he is aware your parents want to see him, he would be compelled to give you an exact date when that would happen.
Also, he would do it because of the respect he has for your parents. He would not want to let them down, don’t you think so?
Mentally prepare for it
You can do this if he promised you something without telling you exactly when it would happen. You can get prepared in all aspects but do not forget to mentally prepare.
When you mentally prepare for something you do it by getting your mind ready for it. In getting your mind ready, you should not be too anxious about what is about to happen, instead, ask yourself what could be the surprise.
Remain calm and wait for him to reveal what he has for you. Try not to be too anxious so that you do not get over-excited about what he is about to show you.
Final words
When a guy says ‘someday’, it could mean that he likes you and he has promised to take you on a date someday. Most times, guys say ‘someday’ when they do not want to give a date they are not sure of.
Saying ‘someday’ is safer because he is not giving you any date that he is not sure of. He is indirectly telling you to get ready because it will happen in the future.
Since he said ‘someday’, you should not trouble yourself too much, remain calm. The calmer you remain, the better for you.
