When a man sings to you it means he likes you and he wants to get closer to you or even become friends with you. It is rare for a guy to sing to you unless there is something attached or there is something he wants to prove to you.
The majority of guys barely sing to women unless the woman is special to them or if he is trying to show the woman how well they can sing. If a man likes you, he is most likely going to sing to you.
There are other reasons why a man would sing to you, you should read on.
6 Possible Meanings When A Man Sings to You
- He likes you
- He is trying to show you how well he can sing
- He is only trying to get your attention to start a conversation
- He just does that to his female friends, it is not that deep
- He is shy, so he would rather sing to express how he feels
- He is auditioning for a singing contest and he needs you to listen to him
He likes you
This is the commonest reason a guy would sing to you if he likes you. He likes you but he has not had the opportunity to get close to you and talk to you. He sees singing as an opportunity to communicate with you.
Since most ladies like it when they are being sung to, she would like it that you are singing to her, if she likes that you are singing to her she would sing back if she is a good singer.
When next you are with a guy and you notice that he likes singing to you, this guy likes you. You should be able to read the signs.
Also, it becomes clearer that he likes you if barely sings to other women around but he sings to you. He would only invest his time in singing to you if he likes you.
He is trying to show you how well he can sing
This is true only if is a good singer himself. Because he knows how to sing, he would always want to show off how well he can sing when he is around you.
If you are someone that can sing too he could be doing it for you to rate how well he sings or for you to compliment his singing.
He may just be showing off his singing abilities to you because you are not so much of a good singer and he wants to feel cool around you.
In a situation like this, if you are enjoying how he sings to you, he can continue, but if at any point you are no longer comfortable with it, simply tell him that you are not comfortable with him singing to you and it is becoming so obvious that he is only showing off.
He is only trying to get your attention to start a conversation
This guy could have been longing to talk to you ever since he set his eyes on you. He figured out that the best way to get your attention would be to sing to you so that would make him start up a conversation with you.
He believes that if he sings to you, you will comment on his voice and you both would start a conversation from there. If she is someone that loves music and she hears you sing, she would comment on your voice and you both would be able to start a conversation.
If you notice that the guy has been making moves to talk to you ever since and he starts singing to you all of a sudden, just know he is trying to start a conversation with you, he is interested in talking to you.
He just does that to his female friends, it is not that deep
Maybe he is not interested in you anyway, he just has a lot of female friends and he is used to singing for them.
When a guy who sings well is used to being around females most of the time, he would be compelled to sing because women love singing and they love being sung to.
If you just met this guy and you notice that he sings around you, do not think he is singing to you because of how special you are to him.
He is just doing that because he is used to having female friends around him and he sings to them. If he is singing to you, do not conclude that he likes you. He is only doing that because he does that to his other female friends.
He is shy, so he would rather sing to express how he feels
Some guys can get shy when they are around the girl they like. If this guy is so shy that he is scared to start a conversation with you he would resort to singing to you hoping he would be able to express how he feels about you through the lyrics.
When he is singing to you, pay attention to the lyrics of the song. That way, you would be able to tell how he feels about you.
Because he is not confident to talk to you, he would say it all in the song. Listen closely to the lyrics and you would get an idea of what he feels about you. You should also talk to him or start a conversation with him when he sings to you.
Start a conversation with him when you notice that he finds it difficult to start a conversation with you. Maybe he just wants you to make a move first then he would take it up from there.
He is auditioning for a singing contest and he needs you to listen to him
It could be that he is auditioning for a singing contest and he needs someone to listen to him sing to judge how well he sings.
If you are the nearest person to him he would most likely sing to you so you can listen to him to judge how well he sings. This is one reason why a guy would sing to you.
In a situation like this, he is not singing because he likes you or because he is trying to get your attention, he is only doing that because he wants you to listen to him sing to judge his performance.
What To Do When A Man Sings To You
When a man is singing to you, do not just sit quietly and act like nothing is happening. Most times, he is doing it to get your attention or even get feedback from you. But what exactly do you do when a man sings to you?
- Tell him how you truly feel
- Tell him he sings well (if he does)
- Judge his performance if he is auditioning for a singing contest
- If you are not comfortable with it, simply tell him to stop
Tell him how you truly feel
Tell him how you truly feel about his sound and the song he is singing to you. That way, he would be getting feedback from you.
He may not let you know that he needs feedback from you but if you tell him how you feel about his sound, it would mean a lot to him, especially if it is good feedback.
Tell him he sings well (if he does)
This is a good thing you can do when a man sings to you. Some guys love it when you compliment them, especially if he is singing to impress you or to show you how good he can sing.
If indeed he sings well, kindly let him know in your feedback that he does. If he does not sing well, constructively tell him in a way he would not get upset or feel embarrassed about his performance.
This is a strategic way to tell him how well he sings.
Judge his performance if he is auditioning for a singing contest
Do this only if he told you earlier that he is auditioning for a contest and he would like to sing to you so you can judge how well he performed.
Because he is auditioning for a contest you have to be as real as possible so that you do not tell him he sings well when in the real sense he does not. This is why you must remain honest with your feedback when he sings to you.
He must have told you to listen to him sing because he trusts you enough to tell him the truth about his performance. You should not let him down.
If you are not comfortable with it, simply tell him to stop
This is a reasonable thing to do when a man sings to you and you are not comfortable with the fact that he is singing to you.
A lot of ladies love it when a man sings to them, but you may be among the select few that does not feel comfortable when a guy sings to you.
If that is the case, simply let him know that you are not comfortable with him singing to you so he can stop it immediately.
Why You Should Date Someone Who Sings
Dating someone who sings comes with some perks that you need to pay attention to, you may be aware of some of these perks and you may not be aware of some.
However, here are some reasons why you should date someone who sings.
- You would not have a boring time when you both are on a road trip
- You can enjoy mini-concerts at home without paying a dime
- Their songs can cheer you up if you are having a bad day
You would not have a boring time when you both are on a road trip
When you both are on a road trip, most especially when you both are traveling privately, you may listen to the radio in the vehicle, but at some point, you could get tired of it.
Having someone who sings to travel with you is such a good thing because she could sing to you while you both enjoy your road trip, making you enjoy it even more.
Since you both are dating, she should know what your favorite song is and she would sing it to you.
You can enjoy mini-concerts at home without paying a dime
This is another perk for dating someone who sings. You can enjoy her singing at home all day, she can even deliver mini-concerts at home without you paying a dime.
Dating someone who sings means there would be no boring moment at home. You would even be able to hear her sing while she is preparing to go to work, even while she is doing some chores.
Their songs can cheer you up if you are having a bad day
There is no doubt that some days do not always turn out as expected. On some days when you are having a bad day, some of her songs could cheer you up. Especially if it is a song that calms the nerve when she sings.
When you are having a bad day, a calm song from her would do the magic, and you would notice how calm you would be when she is done singing.
Final Words
When a man sings to you, he likes you and he is trying to show you how much he likes you by singing to you. If this guy likes you, pay attention to his lyrics when he sings to you.
That way, you would be able to know how he truly feels about you.
Some guys tend to be too shy to start a conversation with a girl they like, in a situation like this he would sing to you, hoping that you both would start a conversation from there.
